Zoe Clews & Associates

Wouldn't it be wonderful to be succeeding in all areas of your life? What would that seem like? What would it feel like? Most importantly, does it seem possible to you? Read below for more information on how Hypnotherapy London could help with that.

A lot of people are making statements along the lines of "I always have good friendships,

but I really struggle with relationships, I'm just not destined to meet somebody", or "I would like to step forward with my career but I don't have what it is needed to get up and present to a room" or "I'm terrible with money, I am not the kind of person that is productive at business, I can't ask for it". These kind of statements are generally offered as "facts", there's a certain resignation that this is "just how things are". These remarks are extremely restricting to individual growth. Said enough times, with enough confidence, they turn into self-fulfilling prophecies, a belief after all is simply a chronic thought. These type of statements are the antithesis of compelling, certainly they are repellent to you.

Of course, some things come much simpler to some people than others. If you were raised with supportive parents who had a stable, solid relationship, it will likely be much easier for you to attract and pick a great partner than someone who grew up with the opposite. Does this mean that the individual who experienced a negative, withholding, traumatic or shattered home cannot discover a great partner? No, but in a lot of instances, the individual will need to work on healing these injuries in order to do that. They might not have genuinely aced it with ease previously, but with the right work, concentration and devotion to facing it, it's completely possible and extremely likely that they will attract an excellent partner.

The truth is, if there are areas of your life that aren't working regardless of your continuous, conscious endeavours and desire to make it so, there will be a reason. Underpinning your irritation at not being able to flow, build or ace this specific field or fields of your life, there'll be influential subconscious opinions and patterns holding you back. It isn't, in contrast to popular belief, down to your lack of "luck". "Luck" is an interesting one: good luck often happens when a person's subconscious desires are aligned with their conscious desires. When this happens, people can really begin to progress freely, unobstructed, attracting what they want and going for what they want from a place of positive yet relaxed expectation. This is not to say life is without its issues, but they will be better challenges for one to overcome, not those of being stuck in a loop of anxiety and inner resistance.

If something still is not working and hasn't worked for long, then it is essential to both bring awareness to it and fully own it. Without this, there's little hope of true, transformational change. Of course, it might be less difficult in the short term to wish things were different, or wait for an enchanting external solution, or continue accusing others, outside conditions, fate or your "bad luck" but how's that working out for you?

One has to distinguish between challenging external circumstances in life which demand change - i.e. changing jobs, leaving a tough relationship or getting out of a toxic atmosphere of any type, typically once these externals have been resolved wellbeing and joy can come back, and what are long serving, unhelpful and stubborn patterns in one's life. Admitting and dealing with these areas normally takes real courage, but there's a practical option if you really do want to have the ideal life possible, if you want to look back and say "I truly aced that!".

If you are not ace-ing it, try dealing with it, you have nothing to lose but the pain of old constraints and it'll give you the possibility to become your best possible self. Please ring 077 6651 5272 to discover more information on Hypnotherapy London.

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